My mom asked me... "how would you react in a bad situation if you knew that your future self would be "happy" it happened ... I was like WHAT?! <--- (insert confused face there) She said "yea, {lol} we go through lil crappy things now so when bigger crappy things happen we know how to deal" --
So the question is ... Would you still get all worked up and upset over it?! or would you look at it for what it is... a life lesson and move on"
This scenario
^ above is what I've been dealing with for the last few weeks... frienemies, crappy friends, boys who you cant figure out, feeling like a second choice, and most importantly having someone take your feelings on a joy ride just to crash and burn them. Ive dealt with more crap in this last month than I have in a year. And to tell you the truth ...
You SURVIVE ! lol The fact is that people will disappoint you -- all you have to do is try and not build up expectations of them cuz they can let you down and
never ever ever put your happiness in someone else's hands. 2 very hard things to do but very important that you try so that when someone does let you down you wont be that heart broken over it!
